HELP!! Urgent! Don't know what i should do?

Didn't read it all.....too long. Basically all you've had was a text relationship. This is nothing like a proper boy/girl relationship and I think you are naive to get annoyed because you have now 'heard' that he's all over another female. Of course he is. She's a real girl, not someone he talks to over the airwaves. If you want him as a boyfriend you will have to meet him face to face and have a proper life with him, flirting, going out etc. You won't get much out of kissing an ipod or mobile phone. Time to grow up I think.