Im a 19 yr old girl ane i've never been to a club?

I've been to lounges and parties but never a club. is that weird? considering the optimal range is 21 to get into good clubs. I just don't have reliable people to go with lol. I just kinda feel like a loser of sorts when I hear other people have been and I haven't...like I have this friend and she's always at a club but she had a fake I.d and she always has a b.f. I feel like to guys she's the cool sexy one and I'm the boring ugly one. am I wrong? please no rude answers just looking fot support.